grandpa didn't accept mc's mom because she was poor and crawled her way up. she was really good at her job and married mc's father. she worked even harder even after she had 2 children bc everyone looked down on her thanks to grandpa. when they lost MC, grandpa was furious and blamed her, because she worked so hard she abandoned the children. oh this old slimy bastard. you f*cking think with your wrinkly toes why she had to work so hard. I also found it funny that he hated her but had no problems loving his grandsons. what's funnier? he was a poor villager who crawled his way up too and married a rich family's daughter. oh you hypocritical bastard. it's really not a loss if he died.

mc's aunt is... pragmatic in the most annoying way. she is a celebrity's manager, one of her stars was ml's ex-friend. ex-friend was in love with ML and had been persuaded by his father to expose ml's whereabouts that had almost lead to ml's death. ex-friend had been horrified and told ML the truth right away hence becoming ex-friend. when ml's family slandered him saying he was a white-eyed wolf for not appreciating his family's "grace and parenting", ex-friend stood up for him, revealing his role in the process. mc's aunt nagged him to death. saying he looked down on everything his staff had worked hard for. when ex-friend said he just couldn't let the victim be smeared like this, mc's aunt reminded him that this was pointless, ML had already married someone else. b*tch, maybe he just wanted to do the right thing?? have you ever thought of that? huh?? she only stopped nagging once there were people supporting ex-friend. sun baijiang my baby, I hope you can move on and find happiness.

One and the foremost that I can’t comprehend is how easy the adoptive father XCZ got away with everything. Yes he saved OG MC. Yes he might not be aware that OG MC is from rich family Xue. Yes that XCZ is having depression.

BUT! THAT DID NOT EXCUSE YOU TO TAKE SOMEONE CHILD FOR FFK 18 years!

AND! I hate how the author just erased the OG MC feeling. Normally in other novel, the MC will address something like

”I can’t say much because the real MC has gone.” Etc etc

but noooo — he decided that he had the right to forgive the adoptive father? Like, fine, it’s better than to be vengeful all the time, but this?!!

YES YOU ARE SELFISH OMFG (MC)

And also that last part with the villain who asked for the 5mn? Come one, stop being karma and such when you are not even in the f*cking jail. You could give the money and maybe ML’s arm would not be hit, you know. Unnecessary drama imo.

And for this kidnapping thing, the irony that the reason why biological parents “forgive” the adoptive father is cause they thought XW has grown cheerful and amazing person. If only they knew how adoptive father “killed” their own son in the first place until MC came.

So yes, doesn’t matter what, I’ll stand with what I said. MC is f*cking selfish. Dad is playing victim. There. Done

And, we have the MC who was so good in drawing but later on it was like ignored? Idk, I just feel like MC is bit Mary Sue. He can draw? He can design jewellery? Thankfully he’s not good with housework at first otherwise it will be weird.

So MC's dad apparently kidnapped him when he was 2. From the beginning of the novel there's this over emphasis on how the MC and the dad love each other so much. Then the dad who is already crippled (he lost both his legs) gets cancer. So the MC spends a good portion of the book taking care of him. When it comes out that the dad kidnapped him its honestly kind of disgusting the way it's handled. It's essentially like yeah this man kidnapped the MC but he loves him and he tried to give him everything so obviously it's okay. Like this man clearly doesn't regret or is sorry that he kidnapped the MC, he's sorry he got caught. And it's kind of disgusting how the MC's original family is forced to make nice and cater to this man WHO KIDNAPPED THEIR CHILD because they worry that if they don't the MC won't want them in his life. Like the book goes on and on about just how much the MC's original family loves him and looked for him. It talks about how the mom became physically and mentally unwell from losing her son. It's disgusting that there are scenes in the book where the MC's dad says point blank to her face that he thought of his illness as the payment for kidnapping the MC and that since he had this it meant the MC's orig family wouldn't appear but here she is. It's disgusting that the author essentially robbed the family of their right to anger because "Oh, this man is sick, and crippled and he loved the MC" "He's a good man" like no, those aren't excuses for KIDNAPPING A CHILD. Yeah, he's mentally unwell but again that's not an excuse. He should have gotten some punishment but the novel refuses to do this and instead keeps trying to tell us that he's a good man. The novel could have easily changed a few things it this was the way they wanted to go, they could easily have said that the MC's dad had found him lost on the train since originally the MC had been lost at the train station. They could have said that MC's dad saved the MC from the human traffickers in the station parkinglott in his home town. There were a million ways they could have gone about this where instead of outright kidnapping the MC he had saved him and then since he lived in such a remote location and noone recognized the MC he just adopted him. If you are going to make the MC's loving crippled sick dad a kidnapped, at least commit to the plot don't flipping reward the dad for kidnapping a child, cause that's what happened this man is essentially rewarded for kidnapping since he never gets any consequences but instead his loving son pays for his cancer treatment, gives him a new home, gives him another new home, gets back his lost company and generally just keeps this man alive

despite saving MC at first, but he eventually kidnapped him. And then it just swept under the rug because he was lonely and ill? I mean yes, there's no use of holding grudges when it won't do any good to MC but it just left some bitter taste, I'm not relieved because the whole kidnapping situation was quite romantized. The dad who adopted MC pampered MC but he's so selfish, he knows that he has toxic relatives and he's not capable of protecting MC but he's delusional he's can provide MC a healthy environment to grow up with? OgMC literally grew up as a person with no self-esteem and easily manipulated by his uncle and cousin because his so-loving dad is foolish enough to be still connected with them despite of his relatives being shady. This is the reason why I only gave 4 instead of 5 because I'm unresolved for the ogMC, his dad knows he's not some abandoned child, has a family who worries for him, and that said family can actually provide a better future given that the kid wore some branded clothes and looked healthy, but the dad was really selfish, there's no other words. All these lead to ogmc's miserable end so I can't forgive the dad. It would've been better if he had realized his mistake first, actually had a plan to confess, and proactively told the MC the truth to ask for forgiveness, and atone, reflect but what do you expect? He's a coward, he just waited for mc's family to resolve it all which eventually force him to reveal the truth. It made me think that he's not actually remorseful, he's just sorry he got caught. I'm only sorry for the MC and his family especially the mom. The funny thing is that the villains didn't annoyed me this much lol

Are you f*cking kidding me... His dad kidnapped him as a child and purposefully his him away from his original family for eighteen years ON PURPOSE and he's entirely forgiven because he was sad. Just because this child you stole is the only thing keeping you around doesn't make it okay or understandable or not worth beating the sh*t out of. He talks to the mother who lost her child who blames herself for hiring a nanny who is also victim blamed for f*cking experiencing crime that hes felt that Xia Wan is his kid!!!!! The f*ck!?!! And people are defending him when he lied to this kid and gave him a bracelet to hide his birthmark and let the Xia family ab*se him. He knows that Xia yang is bullying him he knows that his family is using this depressed meek child who he pulled into hell with him and doesn't stand up for him. He is unequivocally the reason original Xia Wan died.

I just want to say,

(Because a lot of people are saying bad about MC father who took him... but MC n his og family forgave him)

Yeah its true our MC didn't have the right to forgive the Father who took him but....

Think of it like this that father cared for him, loved him, and did everything he can for him and thoughtof the MC as his treasure, and the only reason xia Wan before our MC Transmigrated into him was is such a situation, was because the father wasn't in good condition and couldn't watch over him. If you read the later story. The father actually...

our MC when young was Kidnapped by someone else who could have harmed him but the father saved him and (yes it is wrong) couldn't bear to give him back to police but kept him and took care of him as his precious treasure...

and when the original family came for him, he was really remorseful and apologistic about it, but he still loved the MC... A lott..

and you cant blame the MC for forgiveing the guy,.... the Author mentioned it already....

the MC in his original life was so loved and happy and taken care of that he was naturally sweet and kind and a good hearted person..

And since he was to going to continue living in that body and life, it was his decision to live it as he liked + he had also gotten attached to that father before the original family came For him....

Main point he had his Beloved's support no matter what his choice, (Sweet right)

And his og family also forgave the dude because our MC stilled cared about that father, (Basically they loved the MC soo much and for him they forgave someone they hated and wanted to deal with...)

Basically showing in this novel what love is, = love is sweet, kind, forgiving, gentle and brings joy to oneself and everyone around them...❤️💖💫

You can tell where the plot is headed early on. Instead of building anticipation for it, several chapters got annoying instead because it was apparent the author wanted to brush off the kidnapping.

The initially poor childhood of the original MC was given rose-tinted glasses, focusing on how good and self-sacrificing xcz is at raising this child he had no rights to. Utter nonsense. None of the reasons or excuses written justifies knowingly taking a child and keeping him from his family for 18 years.