The premise being about "assaulting and injured woman" is a bit of a spiteful misinterpretation.

They were in a desperate situation and he accomplished the task given by the system quickly and decisively without abusing the "opportunity", went up, quick kiss because she was surprised and immediately used the power received to save her from literally a demon that wanted to take and ass*ult her in exchange for hostages.

At first she wasn't going to let it go but thanks to a comment she heard she had a hunch the kiss was how he saved everyone and then things unfolded (though she was indeed a little easy to approach once there was a connection since he was pretty bold, public and open about it)

Liking it if you hate women is even worse of an exaggeration, especially with this novel being Chinese and knowing how Chinese stories often are, but this novel surprisingly making her a pretty strong and resilient character, and despite the harem tag it feels more like she's his wife but some things happened on the side (but noone claims MC is a saint). The only point that might support this idea is the lack of female characters, there's NPCs but so far I think we met like 7-8 named ones and 3 are romantic interests.

"Getting his d*ck stroked by destiny" I guess refers to the Lucky protagonist tag. Indeed there's not too much tragedy or drama so this is more about him advancing his cultivation and status and relarionships rather than facing waves of misfortune like in a lot of other stories. Make no mistake tho, there's a lot of conflict and he has to constantly use his skills and resources to achieve is goals and face what's thrown at him but it never feels tragic or unsurmountable making for a lighter reading experience about wondering how well he can use the opportunity and get better rather than if he'll make it out alive.