So it turns out ML likes MC all along but was just really mad that she set him up to marry her. So he ignored her for 5 years. While still spending time with his ex-fiance. Then he suddenly discovered he loved her once she died. Umm what? Clearly ML liked his ex-fiance considering he proposed to her and the sudden realization just don't make sense.

Like a review already said, he clearly wanted to marry his ex, and if MC didn't do what she did in the past, then he would never have realized he loved her but f*cking hell, he's a real s*um for me. Idk why the ex liked him when he LOVED two girls AT THE SAME TIME he clearly stated it too albeit only after he met MC again (ex already knew though), it was just that he "loved MC more" (according to him and ex, but if that were true he would have never proposed to the ex, you know???!?!??) And his excuse is that he didn't realize his love for MC...I understand that it's hard to distinguish between childhood friend/sibling love and man/woman love but ARE YOU SERIOUS._. and MC didn't help him realize his feelings for her when she drugged him either -- but prior to that I highly HIGHLY doubt she never confessed her feelings for him and we know he ain't that f*cking dense to not realize her feelings for him so just AAHHHH

Even worse, later, ML throws her on a guilt trip and forcing her to apologize to him whilst failing to acknowledge his own f*cking wrongs (clearly having feelings for both girls, but only feeling that he'd wronged the ex--he never admitted/apologized for his own actions and other f*ckery to the MC while he worried for the exes feelings and apologized to her -_- and I just want to punch him and throw him in a meat grinder but whatever) and the MC WHADAHELL she is too soft. She should have made ML suffer a bit more, but I get it. She did ruin his original life plans by stealing him from his ex so yeah she can't bear to since she ruined his happiness. She probably also thought he suffered enough for those two years of grief for her death (but girl, you suffered for five years of indifference, humiliation, and loneliness... oh, I forgot. She said that she deserved that since she wronged him first by forcing that marriage--f*ck that logic, if he really loved you then he would have at least apologized to you after he met you again when you were reborn) And haha don't get me started on the fact that ML repeated says he would have married ex if MC didn't die hahahahah f*ck this guy.

he treated her nicely since she was 5. He watched her grow up and thought of her as a sister. It's not easy to turn that kind of sibling relation sexual. But she didn't understand that. Again and again she acted spoiled and disrespected his gf. But he still wasn't mad at her or blamed her. Which I think wasn't fair to his gf. That also shows that he always loved FL more than his gf. More than he realised. And I get that. I have younger boys in my life who I have watched grow up. 10, 5, and just 2 years younger. And I can never imagine loving them more than little brothers.

She Freaking drugged him and accused him of raping her. That's disgusting. His mother seriously fell ill because of that too. How can you forgive a person like that. Even if you forgive, you can't keep loving them. So I'm surprised that the ML still did

she didn't sit quite and feel guilty. She often showed up at his office to cause trouble and insult his ex who was his secretary and just a friend. Slapped that poor girl too.

she drugged and then r*ped him and then told his parents that he r*ped her so that she could force him to marry her =_=. And if that'snot bad enough the ml's mother fell ill because of it.

he always made way for her and cared for her even more than his girlfriend. The MC constantly got in the way of his relationship and even after they married she showed no remorse. The ML never cheated on her once no matter how much he despises her.

they both are. Her only redeeming quality is that she grew up

I HATE IT HOW THE ML KEEP BLAMING THE MC AS A SELFISH PERSON WHEN ACTUALLY HE IS ALSO A SELFISH PRICK!!! If it's not because of him she will never died! If it's not because of him she will still be a happy person. I also HATE his family!! That family should have apologize to her 1000 times or more! They make her life so miserable in those 5 years of loneliness. Even her own brother is also BAD! I want her to be happy with someone else. I actually want her to just forget about her past self..... How can the author do that to her???? Why does the female MC in Chinese novel always got hurt like it's nothing when it's actually something BIG!!??? She gave up everything for the ML but she still got nothing in the end!! HOW CAN HE GET HER BACK INSTANTLY WHEN HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN SUFFERING MORE!!!!!!

If he loves her that much HE SHOULD STOP HER throwing tantrum at his own girlfriend. Not scold her or stop her is what makes her be more crazy to get him with every means. Love doesn't mean you can let her do whatever she wants even if it's wrong, IMO that means you neglected the person.

Seriously why he never force to divorce her himself? She needs to f*cking take 5 whole years to make herself let him go and divorce him. Her brother doesn't even call her, again all of them just neglect her, abandoning her like before the marriage. Those family never talk with her heart to heart. Why not just throw her out if they still feels angered by her, instead of making her stay at his home without anyone to talk to. She is heck so strong to live like that. I will go to a mental hospital if that's happen to me.

Lastly, she doesn't know that they are only FRIEND! She thinks they are in an affair even though she can get him marry her. You also know that the EX still love him, right? People also thought they are still together and even ridiculed the LEGAL WIFE........... I still think that he never marry the EX only because of his guilt towards the MC just like her brother said. He also actually wanna trap her with the marriage FOREVER but will still neglect her to take his revenge up until the death of her. He used to get angry when they are a child, but later he only tolerate her behavior. That's the wrong step he took. Oh right he also keep the EX wait for him until she get tired herself and let go. He wants two women in his life, period!

MC was so wilful and spoiled in the past. When she knew that her love to ML was one sided, she decided to drug him and forced him to marry her. She also directly destroyed ML's relationship with his then fiancee.

It's understandable that ML hated her and gave her silent treatment after they got married. Then he realized that he loved her after her sudden death. I don't think his love for MC is out of the blue. I think he always loves her but he's just too proudful and he hated the fact that MC deceived him.

But I don't like his statement that said that he'll marry his ex when he got divorced with MC. I think this is so contradictory from his previous statement that wish his ex to move on. He also strings along his ex all these years. Yes I know that he often said to his ex to give up and his ex refuses to do so, but he also doesn't push her away and always keeps her by his side (although only as his secretary).

As for MC, I love to see her growth after her rebirth. She's no longer a wilful girl and becomes more sensible. But she still refuses to face her past and decides to move on with her new identity. I don't think that's a selfishness but I also agree with ML that she should face her past and shouldn't let her important persons to grieve when in fact she's still alive.

I was gonna forgive the story the 5 years didn't realise his feelings bull but then the he calls her selfish for not revealing herself and so does everyone else. She was reborn so didn't think anyone would belive and made a lot of people hate her so felt guilty thinking they be better without her. Then the ML became possessive when she wanted to distance herself (he kept saying he doesn't care is shes selfish ect. As long as she's alive) but after their fight he's leaves her! And she has to go after him like WTF

he could've chosen not to marry her, but he still did. If he really didn't want to, he would not be pushed to get married. He's the overbearing type.

Since he chose to marry her, he could've tried to forgive her.

He didn't deserve her love.

She lost herself in the process of loving him. Lost her dreams to be a perfume maker.

But he gets two years and a couple of days to actually get her back.

And he made it look like it was HER fault.

You only realize you love her after she died? You didn't have a relationship with your ex-fiancee/secretary after you broke up? She's just your friend? So you hurt your wife and roped your ex into waiting for you for 7 years. Even if I applaud him for having no s*xual relationship with the ex, that's still scummy man. I don't understand how 1 wrong decision, no matter how big it is, can make a person ignore another person, whom they have spoiled and doted on since young, and just keep hurting them for 5 effing years.

He figured out that Xin xin and Yaya are the same soul. It shows how much he longs for that person.

Yaya did not crush on Yueran in secret. She has been openly showing her love for him, and the way he spoiled her, she's bound to do something like scheming to get married to him so that he won't marry the gf.

After rebirth, she did not show up for 2 years and only decided to appear when she discovered he didn't marry the ex. She wants him to get married and not feel guilty. She felt she owed all of them for hurting them because she loves the ML a lot. But why would you call that selfishness. I mean if somebody (a poor person) approached a rich person and told them, I'm your recently deceased sister/wife, you wouldn't be crazy enough to accept it and will probably think it's a scammer. So she's reasonable when she didn't approach them.

The brother is also unreasonable. You didn't contact your sister for 5 years because she schemed your friends. Then blame her for not contacting you, you were waiting for her call. I just wanna kick his balls. The reason the MC became so lonely is because of all of them.

more than a good bro he was a secretly in love kind of man towards ML'S ex fiance. He knows very well how his sister was being treated but he simply abondoned her for 5 years until she died. He says I m no more angry with her and I know how she's treated but I don't have anything to do in it anymore come on man u r her only guardian you should have tried to advised her, explained her the situations she was in if not enlighten her with her harsh reality but u shouldn't abondoned her like this way. But when FL died he was all crying and blaming ML when he don't even have any right to blame ML afterall being her brother u didn't done ur duty. I find her brother a kind of s*um who only care about ML'S ex fiance