Online Dating Tips on How to Turn Your Nemesis Into Your Wife

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After being a willful young master for twenty years, Jian Yu was suddenly told he was the wrong child.

His parents mercilessly kicked him out, and his former friends kept their distance. Overnight, he was abandoned by everyone.

The only comfort left was his online lover who would never leave him. A famous boss in the game, this person was skilled and arrogantly took him flying. He had a gentle and caring personality and smooths Jian Yu’s hair every day.

After starting an online relationship, Jian Yu’s luck began to improve. When he was short on money, a top fan in his live broadcast room would wildly shower him with gifts, a mysterious buyer purchased his artwork for a large sum of money, and even his meal card inexplicably had thousands of yuan added to it.

However, when the two officially confirmed their relationship and prepared for a video call, Jian Yu was shocked to see his nemesis, Lu Shijin’s face on the phone screen.

Lu Shijin: “…Hi.”

Jian Yu’s smile froze. He was dumbfounded.

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Lu Shijin has always disliked Jian Yu’s arrogance and domineering behavior.

In the game, he had long recognized Jian Yu but chose to conceal it out of mischievous intentions.

But as his understanding increased, he realized that he had a lot of misunderstandings about Jian Yu in the past.

The real Jian Yu was cute and sincere, and was quite attractive.

Lu Shijin didn’t dare to act rashly and worked hard to repair his relationship with Jian Yu in real life.

Just when he thought their relationship had improved, Jian Yu complained to him in the game——

“Husband, let me tell you, my real life nemesis has been acting really weird lately. He keeps showing up inexplicably and looking at me with disgusting eyes. Just thinking about it gives me goosebumps. I really want to punch him.”

Lu Shijin:.

Who will save him?

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feiyun
feiyun rated it
July 6, 2024
Status: Completed
First half - mostly set in the game

Second half - start of drama and wife-chasing irl

Hi!

The novel follows the story of Jian Yu and Lu Shijin who are 'nemeses' in real life.
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Which stemmed from misunderstandings

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The story begins with Lu Shijin trying to find a wife in the game due to a dare but Jian Yu came to him. With Jian Yu coming to him, Lu Shijin decided to be couple with him in-game then reveal his true identity by the end as joke but he gradually developed feelings for Jian Yu as his misunderstandings and misconceptions of him starts to get cleared up.

About the things Lu Shijin said to Gu Wuzhong near the beginning of the story:

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they will get addressed near the end. Don't worry, it wouldn't be bloody

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About the characters

  • Jian Yu (MC, shou) - sharp-tongued, often suspicious, acts domineering sometimes, which all stemmed from trying to protect himself because his parents' didn't care about him. In truth, he's soft-hearted, emotional, and thoughtful but just didn't know how to express it.
  • Lu Shijin (ML, gong) - gremlin, shameless, delulu and did I mention gremlin and shameless? Anyway, he's devoted to Jian Yu but still acts impulsively and domineeringly. He also acts crazy (funny) sometimes, especially what he did to Jian Yu's parents.
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    He tried to scare them by acting like he was gonna run over them after they hit Jian Yu

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    I find him a fresh change from reading aloof MLs all the time.
Jian Yu sees Lu Shijin as someone mature in real life but he is actually a gremlin but also devoted to Jian Yu when he realizes his feelings

And in my opinion, they do act their age for someone who are barely out of their teens (You can disagree with this but as someone who had done and said s*upid things when aged 20-21, I can only relate)

The novel is mostly comedic and the first half being mostly set in-game. The only drama here revolves around Jian Yu's parents and his trauma of being neglected by them.

All in all, I find it a fun read and if you like MMORPG-themed novels and gremlin MLs, I suggest you this novel a try. You might like it.
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WallEyeKnee
WallEyeKnee rated it
August 12, 2024
Status: Completed
This should be online tips on how not to chase after your wife in the game.

I thought it would be them falling love in the game. But ML already knew MCs game character since chapter 1.

MC is a ball of cute anger, ML is a shameless clinger.

... more>> ML just keep doing things ti support MC but lying behind his back, can't take no for answer, shameless lol

But the start was really a dumb prank and alot of misunderstandings. They are cute but seems to be together because MC felt vulnerable after being abandoned. ML just do things without consent and just looks so Overbearing. Good thing his parents are nice.

A short story of wife chasing journey, the game is a side piece. Just watch him cos his wife and kiss and hug <<less
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glitteryjoon
glitteryjoon rated it
September 10, 2024
Status: --
I'm currently on chapter 42 and I'm really debating on whether I should continue reading or not but I'm uncertain.

In the beginning this was cute and the characters were funny. Even the basic misunderstandings were understandable.

However, everything about this novel feels so vague and shallow. For the most part, the gaming is describe more completely than anything else. And that would be fine if it was a gaming novel, but I'm pretty sure I've read a review stating the gaming was just the side thing however whether it's the family... more>> drama or school this novel is so vague about.

There's absolutely no real world building. Everything is glossed over and even when they go out to eat you blink and miss it because aside from "it was packed" and "grilling the meat" you get no feeling of what sort of place it is or what sort of things are around them. The school experience is explained away as "he went to class" or "he sat in class in a daze" there's no real description or experience of the MC in school. It's like the main focus is the relationship between the online characters and everything else is background noise.

I'm not sure if it get better later, but I'm damn near at my breaking point because I can only take so much of the same 2 characters having the same basic ass conversation with other in game players jumping in every 5 chapters or irl characters popping up at random.

This could have been so good if the author cared about the flow at all but currently it feels like the character wakes up, rolls over has a full chapter worth of conversation with the mls online persona then gets on the game to have a 2-3 chapters worth action scene about the game.

Afterwards the MC goes outside and suddenly money falls from the sky for a half paragraph before he picks up his phone to talk to the ML about it and then rinse and repeat.

I really wanted to read this, genuinely. It felt like the author was setting up for interesting scenes here and there but at chapter 40 something we still only know the MC, ML and the best friend of either side. That's the most we have. Trying to introduce a new character now would be too abrupt and obvious especially when they haven't made even an attempt to write anything stimulating outside of the MC and mls back and forth.

So yeah I think I'll have to end my reading here because I'm really just becoming more and more disappointed. <<less
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Bbsnugs
Bbsnugs rated it
September 21, 2024
Status: Completed
A super sweet story, very funny with all the bickering between the couple. The ML is such a gem, he’s shameless and how he tries to get along better with the MC in real life but always messes up is hilarious. He is exactly what the MC needs as he is expressive and is able to give a sense of security to the MC. The MC has been emotionally ab*sed growing up by his parents so he feels inferior and is very guarded. I’m glad the ML had so much... more>> persistence to be able to slowly break down the MC’s walls. Very gd read. <<less
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FuDunDun
FuDunDun rated it
July 16, 2024
Status: --
I rate this 5 stars because somehow the rating is so low so I'm trying to boost the rating.

I couldn't say whether I liked it or not. It's an enjoyable read. Slice of life gaming kinda novel.

Gremlin ML bc he's annoying and cute at the same time. He truly act his age. He's just your usual annoying college kids hahaha I do like the ML a lot.

... more>> I think MC is cute too.

This is a quick cute read if you're looking for something easy and fun to read when taking a break from your sad long dramatic novel haha <<less
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Majin11
Majin11 rated it
September 14, 2024
Status: c88
The whole thing is so cutteeeee..

It's like seeing the raw combination of a tsundere cat and a silly dumb dog. Hahahaha!

I think this actually hits closer to home. Especially the part about MC's parents.
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Where parents willingly manipulate and hurt their own child to get what they want. Parents who actually see children as dolls that they can make and break. Super big spoiler too, the fact that they were able to kick out their own son, their own blood, and hurt him by telling him that he was not their son was just so low, they deserve a special place in hell. They are so hateful.

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MC and ML's love story is sweet tho. I especially liked that the author was actually able to incorporate the character growth in the story.
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Especially the point where MC being the tsuntsun he is, was actually able to accept and fight with ML even after he found out what ML's dumb plan was. As a person who has trust issues, being able to stay and stand his ground showed his confidence. He knew that the ML really loved him, still. That doesn't stop him from being mad and expressing his dissatisfaction. Being able to complain and express dissatisfaction is a huge win, especially for those children who grew up neglected and ab*sed by their parents.

And it's really fun to see how the ML slowly but surely was able to learn how to coax his wife properly. Learning the difference between a prideful wife and a demure wife was really cute. I really liked how they showed growth that way.

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Special thanks to the translator Noa Edits~

I had an unexpected find while reading this novel. I found out how to do audio reading on Gdocs! HAHA! SO happy!
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rexincognito
rexincognito rated it
November 27, 2024
Status: --
When I read the most recent negative review I was skeptical about ML being that manipulative until I reached C50. Firstly even before C50 some parts of the storyline made me raise my eyebrows, like... more>>
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the way ML kept up with the charade for so long knowing the how emotionally reliant the MC was and specially going to find his uncle to get the MC's address and the story just glossing over it like thats completely okay bc gasp!! wow!! overbearing CEO archetype!!! its giving ballerina farm guy seating himself right next to her on her flight... In addition the confession scene in C50 was just crazy?? ML has had a grudge against MC for the misunderstanding of MC telling on him and he can turn around the accuse the MC of having a grudge against him onesidedly?? Accusing MC of being prejudiced against him and using the attachment MC had to his online persona to manipulate him is really just disgusting.

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I don't want to rate it below 3 because I have read worse but this isn't the best overall. The story is a kind of feel good read but to do so you have to take the entire narration at face value without considering the weird red flags that pop up, so I'd say this is ok to read if you really are bored and want to read something but theres always better novels out there... <<less
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mahoutofu
mahoutofu rated it
October 15, 2024
Status: c83
I have so many thoughts on this novel but the one thought that ran through my mind the whole way through was how terrible the ML is lol. I feel so bad for Jian Yu he really jumped from one abusive household (neglectful toxic parents) to another (gaslighter gong). At least his mother-in-law is decent?? Probably the only character in this novel that actually cares about Jian Yu's well being.

You can clearly tell poor Jian Yu hasn't been given a lot of love by like anyone ever in his life.... more>> So the second he got love bombed by ML of course he stood no chance! AAH it makes me sick I know this is supposed to be some cutesy fluffy danmei but the whole thing just felt like a horror novel. Reading about Jian Yu slowly falling for ML's lies and manipulation made me sick to the stomach. Someone please save Jian Yu and get him the f*ck away from ML I'm begging. <<less
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zenshi1024
zenshi1024 rated it
September 26, 2024
Status: --
I hate MC's parents!!!

I love ML's parents!!!

I love how ML recognize his mistakes and make amends.

I just thought their description with each other a bit opposite? like how ML is mature... but not at all instead its the MC whose calm and a bit mature.

Overall!

A good read
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Adlt_1226
Adlt_1226 rated it
September 15, 2024
Status: c1
adorkable and endearing, I quite liked this... quite a realistic portrayal of someone who's had a lot of trauma growing up and as a result, they keep challenging the people who show them affection just to test whether they'll abandon them as well once they reach their limit... it's a good thing ML is just an overflowing reservoir of patience and love, that he just doesn't run out of it for MC...
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