she lost her marbles when she found out that Wen Ruoxian had a 'white moonlight' and still hadn't fully moved on and that really bothered me. She was the one who wanted to woo Wen Ruoxian, and did all sorts of things despite the latter not asking her to do so and yet when she found out about Wen Ruoxian's secret, she acted like she was forced and deceived into doing those things, although Wen Ruoxian had indulged her again and again despite her own discomfort and concerns. Yeah, the woman was indecisive and didn't give a clear answer to Song Qingluo, but she barely had time to process her emotions since Song Qingluo was being quite pushy in her affection, honestly. Were Song Qingluo's actions a wake-up call for Wen Ruoxian? Likely so. But Wen Ruoxian wasn't responsible to regulate Song Qingluo's emotions. Song Qingluo lashed out at the woman she supposedly loved, then took advantage of her while she was drunk - I don't care if Song Qingluo was trying to justify it as 'Wen Ruoxian was the one who initiated it and I'm just going with the flow'. Wen Ruoxian wasn't fully sober and Song Qingluo still took the opportunity to be intimate despite knowing she would leave afterward. I lost her respect for her after these incidents. She's acting like a man who got rejected and then lashing out against the person who rejected them, it's just disappointing.