Juicy Groveling/Redemption Arc (BL/Danmeis)

Juicy Groveling/Redemption Arc (BL/Danmeis)
Heartache and Redemption: A List of Wife-Chasing Crematorium Danmei

For those who crave angst, regret, and the ultimate pursuit of lost love, this list is for you.

Books on this list delivers gut-wrenching emotional turmoil—where one protagonist (often cold, indifferent, or downright cruel) realizes too late that they’ve lost the love of their life. 
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shanabanana
Created: Jan 22nd, 2025, Updated: Jul 4th, 2025
Created Jan 22nd, 2025
Updated Jul 4th, 2025
CN (4.2)
57 Chapters Every 83.7 Day(s) 3006 Readers 33 Reviews 03-09-2022
I really enjoyed this story. Highly recommend
CN (3.9)
215 Chapters Every 155.5 Day(s) 5309 Readers 79 Reviews 04-30-2019
More chasing than groveling here, this is one of my favorite SQC novels but its tough to find a decent translation for this. There's a... more>>
CN (4)
69 Chapters Every 85.7 Day(s) 6425 Readers 144 Reviews 10-19-2024
I enjoyed the first half. The MC really made the ML suffer—he groveled so hard that many readers didn't like it because of how cruel... more>>
CN (4)
132 Chapters Every 51.5 Day(s) 3595 Readers 33 Reviews 08-08-2024
One of the best SQC novels—highly recommended. The groveling was delicious.
CN (4.4)
65 Chapters Every 79.1 Day(s) 18170 Readers 412 Reviews 04-27-2023
Really long book, but probably my second favorite danmei after QJJ. All of Meatbun's books are heavy on angst but deeply rewarding in the end.
CN (3.2)
166 Chapters Every 59.1 Day(s) 1604 Readers 25 Reviews 04-07-2023
If you can endure 100 chapters of the MC's suffering, then read this. The ML drags him through the deepest pits of hell. He did... more>>
CN (4)
62 Chapters Every 81.5 Day(s) 3351 Readers 60 Reviews 04-24-2022
This story isn't overly toxic compared to others on this list, but it has a really great grovel arc from the ML. You'll truly feel... more>>
CN (4.1)
108 Chapters Every 66.9 Day(s) 5071 Readers 125 Reviews 12-14-2024
Kinda the same vibes with The Obsessive Shou Moves On. This is also a rebirth story, MC regained his past memories from prev life and... more>>
CN (3.8)
88 Chapters Every 51.4 Day(s) 1507 Readers 14 Reviews 07-10-2023
LOVED the first half! However, I think the ML groveled way too much—I actually felt bad for him. Compared to other scummy MLs, he wasn’t even toxic. His only real "fault" was falling head over heels for an MC who was strongly resistant to the idea of being with another man. Yes, the ML can be manipulative and forceful at times, but considering his upbringing, it’s not surprising. He grew up in a deeply dysfunctional family, surrounded by scheming, manipulation, and toxicity. He was abandoned and neglected—so is it really a shock that he turned out this way?... more>>
CN (4.3)
0 Chapters Every 2638 Day(s) 12900 Readers 118 Reviews 07-15-2018
It’s a rebirth/second chance story, but this time, it’s the Seme who regains his memories from the previous life. He sometimes reminded me of Moran... more>>
CN (4.1)
98 Chapters Every 64 Day(s) 2806 Readers 46 Reviews 02-12-2023
Very angsty. Not my favorite, but a lot of people loved it. You might too, The main conflict wasnt directly caused by MC or ML... more>>
KR (3.5)
211 Chapters Every 2.9 Day(s) 1531 Readers 5 Reviews 08-09-2025
CN (4)
159 Chapters Every 145.1 Day(s) 5808 Readers 116 Reviews 09-08-2019
Typical SQC crematorium novel. Not my favorite but an okay read to pass the time. There's a rebirth,chasing and redemption arc.
CN (3.8)
9 Chapters Every 138.4 Day(s) 2309 Readers 46 Reviews 12-11-2022
Piece of sh*t ML. A lot of people loved this book—not me, though. I’m adding it to the list because he did grovel at the... more>>
CN (4.1)
69 Chapters Every 18.2 Day(s) 1117 Readers 17 Reviews 12-25-2024
A good read and ML is not a complete s*umbag. Conflict between ML and MC is caused by lack of communication and misunderstanding. There's a... more>>
CN (3.7)
71 Chapters Every 55.6 Day(s) 3536 Readers 33 Reviews 06-01-2023
Toxic from start to finish
CN (3.8)
212 Chapters Every 40.8 Day(s) 4417 Readers 67 Reviews 01-30-2025
I don’t remember the plot clearly, but it’s an omegaverse story where the ML is a s*umbag who took the MC for granted. The MC... more>>
CN (4.3)
34 Chapters Every 146.1 Day(s) 3544 Readers 54 Reviews 09-18-2022
Another long book with some chasing and groveling, though it mostly happens near the end. The story is heavily focused on the military plot, but... more>>
CN (4.3)
108 Chapters Every 81.4 Day(s) 5334 Readers 57 Reviews 04-19-2022
CN (4.3)
64 Chapters Every 74.5 Day(s) 2257 Readers 60 Reviews 07-27-2022
CN (4.4)
13 Chapters Every 69.8 Day(s) 999 Readers 10 Reviews 02-19-2023
CN (4)
74 Chapters Every 31.9 Day(s) 521 Readers 8 Reviews 04-20-2024
CN (3.3)
140 Chapters Every 17.3 Day(s) 3359 Readers 60 Reviews 03-30-2025
I didnt have the patience to read all the chapters of MC being treated as air, I read the first 20 chapters to familiarize myself... more>>
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  1. Fave
    Fave· Apr 20, 2025 09:58 AM

    I would also like to suggest , Crematorium for everyone when the false young master awakens 

    The best part of this for me is that although the MLs grovelled the mc  didn’t end up with any of them instead he got a new love interest that loves him sm 

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  2. oblivmeye
    oblivmeye· Apr 16, 2025 06:23 PM
    to offer my thanks for this wonderful list, i suggest “professional lover”, the grovelling is excellent imo! 
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    • shanabanana
      shanabanana· Author · Apr 16, 2025 06:26 PM
      Thanks bb! will read it and add it here. much love
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  3. Voldevie
    Voldevie· Mar 13, 2025 04:01 PM
    May I offer you 'How to Catch an A' which has some husband-chasing. It is pretty short but i loved it.
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    • shanabanana
      shanabanana· Author · Mar 14, 2025 02:39 AM
      Yay! Thanks for the recommendation!!  I'll read it next and add it to the listclear.png
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