BL with sweet, non-forced relationships

BL with sweet, non-forced relationships
I am so tired of the "I'm not gay/not willing, but it felt so good last night, and he will kill anyone else I might fall in love with, so maybe I don't really mind that much, but I will keep running away because I think I'm addicted to being forced down" protagonists! So I'm creating a list that is completely opposite.

The most important criterion for choosing the novels is how honest and genuine the protagonists are to each other. There is no particular order, new additions are at the top of the list.

Comment to recommend novels. I am still updating the list, but rarely because I'm picky.
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Shadowdrop
Created: Sep 12th, 2019, Updated: Jul 28th, 2025
Created Sep 12th, 2019
Updated Jul 28th, 2025
CN (4)
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This novel is hilarious. MC starts out as a very shou-looking white lotus, but soon turns into a OP brainless puppy gong whose head is... more>>
CN (4.2)
90 Chapters Every 62.5 Day(s) 3476 Readers 19 Reviews 03-27-2023
It's a silly and fluffy novel, and even the tense moments are more chuuni than angst. The relationship between MC and ML is adorable, I... more>>
CN (4.2)
97 Chapters Every 48.5 Day(s) 3379 Readers 33 Reviews 09-09-2023
Although the plot is pretty simple, and even cliche in places, I like the way MC and ML discover and face their feelings. Also, the... more>>
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  1. Kazualbrekker
    Kazualbrekker· Oct 11, 2019 12:48 PM

    Can I suggest 'Don’t Pick Up Boyfriends From the tr*sh Bin' the translation is still ongoing but MC's are pretty level headed so I think it could qualify  (also thank you for this list it's truly a blessing,) 

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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · Oct 12, 2019 02:48 AM

      I have a bit of a busy month so the list is not updated currently, but I'm very grateful for suggestions, because every suggestion might become my new favourite novel.

      I'm glad you like this list clear.png
      Edit: It really became my new favourite novel, thank you so much for suggestion!

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  2. Shinyies
    Shinyies· May 22, 2025 09:36 PM
    I came here after reading 'Intoxicated (Seven)' review and tbh i was expecting that novel to be here.
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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · May 26, 2025 10:12 AM
      Honestly, I probably just forgot this list existed when I read it clear.png
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    • Shinyies
      Shinyies· May 26, 2025 11:50 AM
      @Shadowdrop no worries, i read that novel after reading a heart breaking one so i needed a good fluffy list to cheer me up!
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  3. Reader227
    Reader227· May 29, 2023 01:24 PM
    Thank you, I have been annoyed with the lack of kindness in BL.this list has been a great find and I appreciate the work you've done here.clear.png
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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · Feb 18, 2024 12:54 PM
      I'm glad I could introduce these wonderful novels to people who will enjoy them clear.png
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  4. richarddixonriddle
    richarddixonriddle· Jun 28, 2020 05:29 AM
    Thanks! You should check out rebirth of the supreme celestial being... In his past life there was dub/non-con... but in the present life the Seme protagonist (yay... not another uke-only perspective) is like the perfect seme... 400+ chapters in and not ONCE have I felt like the Uke is being disrespected. Thanks for this list.... I'm SO OVER it... I read In Love with An Idiot until the end hoping it'd get better and it's plagued me for like 6 months... so. aw. ful.
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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · Jul 6, 2020 09:53 AM
      Thanks, I'm glad my list was helpful. And thank you for suggestion. I did read 80-ish chapters of Supreme Celestial Being some time ago, but I dropped it. If I remember correctly, it was because the shou was a bit of a 'little tail' that followed MC without taking initiative, even when they were doing something for his sake (unless it was another very similar story and I remembered wrong - it's been a while). I know it's kind of nitpick-y, but I don't want to recommend novels that I didn't enjoy personally.
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  5. Serefina
    Serefina· Jan 8, 2020 06:55 AM
    oh? if you are still updating i also have a list kinda like this (but it's all romance genre not just BL) if you are looking for some to read https://www.novelupdates.info/viewlist/3619/
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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · Jan 12, 2020 01:26 PM

      Yup, I am still updating. I do not have the goal of making a complete list, I just add a novel whenever I find a good one. This list has only 2 novels that I 'liked but didn't love', the rest are my absolute favourites.

      Your list is good, I tried to make one for BG too, but gave up because equality is harder to find in BG stories. Usually, it's either a spoiled little wife and an overbearing husband or henpecked husband and Mary Sue(ish) wife. Or maybe I'm just bad at finding the novels I like.

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  6. lteye
    lteye· Oct 17, 2019 01:03 AM

    Film emperor’s adorable wife from ancient times. 

    It’s still being translated but the mtl is pretty readable

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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · Oct 17, 2019 11:32 AM
      I'm trying to avoid the 'possessive husband and his little wife' types of novel for this list, so the synopsis is a red flag, but I'll check it out.
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  7. Shizukani
    Shizukani· Oct 16, 2019 11:11 PM
    Rebirth of the supermodel? 
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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · Oct 17, 2019 11:25 AM
      I love this novel, but it's not suitable for this list.
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  8. Weylin
    Weylin· Sep 25, 2019 02:22 AM

    I Just Want to Be in a Relationship

    Seizing Dreams

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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · Sep 26, 2019 11:43 AM
      First one doesn't really suit this list IMO. I'll read the other one and see if it fits.
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  9. thypsychotic
    thypsychotic· Sep 20, 2019 12:18 PM

    - Blooming Romance

    - Ghosts Know What I Experienced

    - The Wife is First

    There's some referenced non-con on the first chapter of that last one, but after that the ML was pretty respectful and not very pushy. 

    These three novels all have pretty sweet, earnest ML and they actually know how to respect their love interests. I have a mighty need for these types, yeah. 

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    • Shadowdrop
      Shadowdrop· Author · Sep 26, 2019 11:50 AM

      Thanks, I'll check them out and add if they fit.

      [Edit: Ghosts Know and Wife is First are in my 'favorite' list now, but I'm not sure if Wife is First suits this list. I completely forgot to check Blooming Romance out, will do that sometime soon]

      [Edit 2: I absolutely love all 3 novels! I am still waiting for more chapters of Wife is First to come out, but it looks like it will suit this list after all. Huge thanks for these suggestions, I really enjoyed reading them]

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