BL with sweet, non-forced relationships
BL with sweet, non-forced relationships
I am so tired of the "I'm not gay/not willing, but it felt so good last night, and he will kill anyone else I might fall in love with, so maybe I don't really mind that much, but I will keep running away because I think I'm addicted to being forced down" protagonists! So I'm creating a list that is completely opposite.
The most important criterion for choosing the novels is how honest and genuine the protagonists are to each other. There is no particular order, new additions are at the top of the list.
Comment to recommend novels. I am still updating the list, but rarely because I'm picky.
The most important criterion for choosing the novels is how honest and genuine the protagonists are to each other. There is no particular order, new additions are at the top of the list.
Comment to recommend novels. I am still updating the list, but rarely because I'm picky.
69 Followers

Created: Sep 12th, 2019, Updated: Jul 28th, 2025
Created Sep 12th, 2019
Updated Jul 28th, 2025

56 Chapters Every 132.4 Day(s) 6801 Readers 41 Reviews 02-08-2024
This novel is hilarious. MC starts out as a very shou-looking white lotus, but soon turns into a OP brainless puppy gong whose head is... more>>

90 Chapters Every 62.5 Day(s) 3476 Readers 19 Reviews 03-27-2023
It's a silly and fluffy novel, and even the tense moments are more chuuni than angst. The relationship between MC and ML is adorable, I... more>>

97 Chapters Every 48.5 Day(s) 3379 Readers 33 Reviews 09-09-2023
Although the plot is pretty simple, and even cliche in places, I like the way MC and ML discover and face their feelings. Also, the... more>>
Comments (19)
Can I suggest 'Don’t Pick Up Boyfriends From the tr*sh Bin' the translation is still ongoing but MC's are pretty level headed so I think it could qualify (also thank you for this list it's truly a blessing,)
I have a bit of a busy month so the list is not updated currently, but I'm very grateful for suggestions, because every suggestion might become my new favourite novel.
I'm glad you like this list
Edit: It really became my new favourite novel, thank you so much for suggestion!
Yup, I am still updating. I do not have the goal of making a complete list, I just add a novel whenever I find a good one. This list has only 2 novels that I 'liked but didn't love', the rest are my absolute favourites.
Your list is good, I tried to make one for BG too, but gave up because equality is harder to find in BG stories. Usually, it's either a spoiled little wife and an overbearing husband or henpecked husband and Mary Sue(ish) wife. Or maybe I'm just bad at finding the novels I like.
Film emperor’s adorable wife from ancient times.
It’s still being translated but the mtl is pretty readable
I Just Want to Be in a Relationship
Seizing Dreams
- Blooming Romance
- Ghosts Know What I Experienced
- The Wife is First
There's some referenced non-con on the first chapter of that last one, but after that the ML was pretty respectful and not very pushy.
These three novels all have pretty sweet, earnest ML and they actually know how to respect their love interests. I have a mighty need for these types, yeah.
Thanks, I'll check them out and add if they fit.
[Edit: Ghosts Know and Wife is First are in my 'favorite' list now, but I'm not sure if Wife is First suits this list. I completely forgot to check Blooming Romance out, will do that sometime soon]
[Edit 2: I absolutely love all 3 novels! I am still waiting for more chapters of Wife is First to come out, but it looks like it will suit this list after all. Huge thanks for these suggestions, I really enjoyed reading them]