Healthiest Relationships Ever in BL

Healthiest Relationships Ever in BL
I am sick and tired of reading novel after novel showcasing toxic relationship as romance in BL novels. Depicting lust, addiction, possessiveness, jealousy, s*xual harassment, infatuation and desire as love, I don't understand what the majority of authors of BL novels are trying to achieve.

Now that I have vented my anger, I feel a bit better. Anyways, here is a list of BL novels that tells us what true love is all about.
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Created: Apr 8th, 2021, Updated: Jan 24th, 2023
Created Apr 8th, 2021
Updated Jan 24th, 2023
CN (4.5)
127 Chapters Every 108 Day(s) 4667 Readers 62 Reviews 06-01-2025
This is one of the most original books I have ever read. Gosh, MC and ML fall in love so naturally, they didn't even need... more>>
CN (4.6)
37 Chapters Every 8.5 Day(s) 8450 Readers 105 Reviews 03-13-2025
This book is absolutely the best in every single possible way. Where do I go and find a person that is like MC or ML?... more>>
CN (4.7)
8 Chapters Every 80.3 Day(s) 14899 Readers 292 Reviews 02-24-2025
I usually hate MLs in most of the Chinese BL novels because they are poker-faced and have one-dimensional characteristics. But this book's ML is AMAZING.... more>>
CN (4.7)
27 Chapters Every 82.2 Day(s) 27810 Readers 562 Reviews 06-06-2025
This is the first Chinese book I have ever read and since the relationship depicted is so healthy, I have set their relationship to judge... more>>
CN (4.7)
28 Chapters Every 16.4 Day(s) 23228 Readers 511 Reviews 11-29-2020
The ML is a dream boyfriend. He waits for 800 years for MC. He gets stronger for MC. He builds everything for MC. He never... more>>
CN (4.4)
75 Chapters Every 158.9 Day(s) 10835 Readers 159 Reviews 01-05-2019
What should you do when you want to be first desperately but always end of becoming second because you can't beat the first guy no... more>>
CN (4.5)
101 Chapters Every 125.3 Day(s) 13710 Readers 162 Reviews 08-17-2020
Both MC and ML are so shameless that the whole story is hilarious. Because of MC's misleading actions, ML thinks that MC has fallen in... more>>
CN (4.4)
142 Chapters Every 121 Day(s) 8540 Readers 160 Reviews 07-19-2020
One word - cute
CN (4.6)
131 Chapters Every 74 Day(s) 20738 Readers 437 Reviews 06-22-2023
Their relationship started very slowly. They fall in love step by step. They are attracted to each other for sure but in such a harsh... more>>
CN (4.8)
90 Chapters Every 2.3 Day(s) 16137 Readers 340 Reviews 05-23-2025
The story doesn't follow the usual path many Chinese BL novels take to form the relationship between the lead characters. The story itself is top-notch in the sense that it can match many high quality printed novels all over the world.... more>>
CN (4.4)
261 Chapters Every 135.8 Day(s) 12856 Readers 189 Reviews 01-12-2020
MC and ML act like an old couple already married for ten years. They are extremely sweet and cute and the like. This story is... more>>
CN (4.5)
251 Chapters Every 129.3 Day(s) 8518 Readers 154 Reviews 04-15-2020
Although ML is the typical sex-maniac top, what sets him apart is that he admits to his mistakes. If MC and ML face any complication... more>>
CN (4.6)
116 Chapters Every 121.5 Day(s) 9915 Readers 209 Reviews 07-03-2020
MC and ML help each other out. MC is there to heal ML's past trauma and ML supports MC to grow in his career. Although... more>>
CN (4.5)
109 Chapters Every 120.9 Day(s) 10295 Readers 129 Reviews 08-24-2020
This is definitely one of the cutest love stories ever. Even before the beginning of the novel, MC and ML had already been in a... more>>
CN (4.2)
297 Chapters Every 74.5 Day(s) 10171 Readers 146 Reviews 07-12-2022
MC and ML are always pushing each other upwards. MC helps ML become independent and brave to a point where nobody dares to touch him... more>>
CN (4.1)
137 Chapters Every 0.5 Day(s) 3562 Readers 60 Reviews 06-22-2025
MC and ML are like an old couple supporting each other through thick and thins. Also, the novel doesn't focus much on physical intimacy, rather... more>>
CN (4.5)
133 Chapters Every 24.3 Day(s) 6283 Readers 66 Reviews 12-07-2024
Basically, MC is already great. ML has a huge inferiority complex because despite being a ger, he is manlier than men. MC helps ML get... more>>
CN (4.5)
173 Chapters Every 5.5 Day(s) 5933 Readers 71 Reviews 06-22-2025
Since this novel is in this list, the relationship between MC and ML is obviously healthy. Also, the story itself is very good. Although there... more>>
CN (4.3)
90 Chapters Every 143.9 Day(s) 13769 Readers 175 Reviews 08-02-2019
Although the story itself is not something groundbreaking, in fact, it is quite shallow and fails to use its strengths, however, I must say that... more>>
CN (4.6)
178 Chapters Every 90.5 Day(s) 8803 Readers 121 Reviews 07-19-2023
An epic love story between a taciturn monk and a tsundere dragon. 
CN (4.5)
52 Chapters Every 55.3 Day(s) 7143 Readers 116 Reviews 03-24-2023
One of the best portrayal of healing relationships. The relationship is healthy not only between the lead characters but their relationship is well-maintained with their... more>>
CN (4.4)
32 Chapters Every 100.5 Day(s) 3717 Readers 36 Reviews 05-12-2021
The whole book is a literal definition of what a healthy relationship looks like. I never thought a smut genre would be so fluffy rather... more>>
CN (4.5)
88 Chapters Every 62.6 Day(s) 4832 Readers 75 Reviews 02-04-2023
The dynamic of the main couple is one of the best I have ever read. They both are such trolls that I laughed throughout the... more>>
CN (4.5)
42 Chapters Every 111.4 Day(s) 5276 Readers 77 Reviews 12-27-2020
Unlike most of the C-BL novels, this one doesn't revolve around s*x. In fact, the couple don't even rush to have a kiss. They just... more>>
CN (4.5)
0 Chapters Every 1562 Day(s) 13167 Readers 245 Reviews 03-14-2021
I have read many novels with cute relationship dynamic but I never thought there would be a story where the relationship is THIS cute. Damn!... more>>
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  1. dee_ism
    dee_ism· Jan 13, 2022 11:40 AM
    I'd like to recommend: Golden Stage and FOG
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  2. Artie
    Artie· Jun 18, 2021 03:51 PM

    I stan this list so hard and totally agree with what you're saying. I have a private list called "Absolute Favorite BL - Healthy Relationships and Mutual Respect" myself, haha. 

    Here's a recommendation for your list as well as general reading: They All Say I’ve Met a Ghost. It's super sweet and the relationship is super healthy, though it's not a "fluff" novel since it revolves more around plot, I suppose. But I absolutely recommend it, it's really great. 

    Also stuff like Guide on How to Fail at Online Dating, Everyone Thinks that I Like Him, 100k Volts Electrocutes You to Death, The Wrong Way to a Demon Sect Leader, and  How Could This Cat Tease Me? are all super healthy and good. 

    There's some other stuff too, but I'll stop now. Sorry for spamming a bunch of recommendations. I just want to say your list is *chef's kiss*

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  3. ReaderNo2
    ReaderNo2· May 19, 2021 02:02 AM
    I also recommend "The Heart of a Smith" if you still haven't read it. It's the definition of healthy relationship clear.png
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