Ex-Husband came off as s*um at the beginning and unfeeling but he did love FL he's just very bad at expressing his emotions like a typical other novel ML I believe his family has a lot to do with how he turns out. His family is very controlling and it doesn't help when his father is a high ranking official in the military that he was able to divorce his son's wife for him while he's on a mission (He didn't want a divorce) I wish he could break off from his family but that's unrealistic based off of culture, traditions, and time period. He was remorseful but it was already too late for him as FL also reborn and won't turn back. I may not like how he threaten FL to go back but he desperately wanted a chance he did let go eventually he let her go but never stop loving her. His character is between the gray line you may not like him but can't hate him either.

the main villain aside, I never really understood the first husband but the final chapters give more insight into his thinking and I really appreciated that.

The second villain was devious. I like that it followed some psychology characteristics of how that type of personality may think.

It was so regrettable that she can't prevent 100% of the r*ping case of the other characters in the novel. She also didn't "realize" who's the villain that makes the ML got all the misfortune in his first life.

It's fair if she didn't know it in the past life IF only the ML in previous life never tell her about it but even though they only met on their late age during the past life, they were together for decades! And she never asked about it? What kind of nonsense was that? So it's kind upsetting that she can't prevent all of the misfortunes.

Second, nevertheless FMC is still an amazing character, but at the same time I realized how "weak" was our ML that I even thinks that without FL he really was hopeless... (He's good, don't be disheartened just because I said this)

Third, I truly hate the "Choose your loved one or choose to save him while leaving him alone and you go with me" troupe. Like? I just hateeee it so much. They spent years together and now she's leaving him... I hate separation between lovers. Fortunately it ended beautifully in this novel.

it's just there is one or two thing I dislike from some of their character. One is those mindset that avoid the main topic to create misunderstanding. For example the MC actions towards the ex husband sisters. Since the beginning the sister always mention her brother, and the MC has not even try to clear it even once, that she no longer like nor after the brother. Perhaps the author want to use this in the future plot, but God for me as a reader it is really annoying, even more when it's always mentioned how direct and cunning MC actually is, yet she allow this type of misunderstanding and let the sister got whatever she demand using this excuse. Ah ah, that's really a downer

i got my answer on the next story, basically I have to understand both the MC and the ex husband personality to understand the MC actions. at first she kinda thinking it's not necessary for her to correct the Jiang Li words, But later after she suspect of his reborn she has to be cautious in case the ex-husband find out about he shoubai as he has been pressed so bad in the last life by ML.

i understand why many reader feel pity for him, but me personally I couldn't have that kind of feeling towards his character. I would actually pitying him if at the time he found out that her wife first miscarriage was the deliberate plan by that moonlight of him, he would get the justice for his child. But no, he didn't. It shows clear enough that he did not have a single feeling either towards his wife or children, the only thing he try to protect was his comfort world. He change because his perfect world were shatter, he chang the moment the wife also change her attitude. He is selfish even after his reborn. That is why I personally find his words on the story is pretty much unreliable as the author itself didn't really show a narrative about his inner feeling in a objective way. I would want to see him miserable life on the ML reborn time also his redemption life after the reborn, but sadly the author give us a total control over that. It's also kinda annoying how there is no clear punishments for the white moonlight girl, and the ex husband mother knowledge regardless her grandchildren miscarriage or her reaction after the divorce as it really affect her son. I'm dying to know the author mind on it, not mine.

the 4 years time gap was too much. Why can't the author give us a proper scene about the ML and FL life also the ex husband and FL pursuit. I'm curious on why he would give up? What kind of brain did he resonate with as he seems very reluctant to actually let her go until the lasy moment on her weeding.

Although his story is pitiful but it is really "if it's meant to be, it will be".

The way the ML found out about the whole past life thing was something that is totally different but it wasn't uncomfortable. Even if you feel like it is lacking and that there should be something more, you'll forget about it because it fit the atmosphere perfectly.

as the characters grow old and get buried. But it didn't end there, it loops back to the past life (side story) which had an equally happy ending in such circumstances

Zhao Lanxiang's past life was too pitiful. Reading about her previous life was excruciatingly painful. I don't think that the ex-husband was s*um per se, in fact, I pity him as well, but he was definitely to be blamed. And they were never going to be together. I wish he had changed in his second life and repented but he didn't really at the beginning. Eventually, he did let her go, but it felt a bit unsatisfying. I feel like the FL and he needed some closure. A goodbye scene where everything was out in the open and he let her go finally with well wishes.

He Songbai is thinking about their two lives, they always meet at the moment of each other's roughest time. Each encounter is not the best, there is pain and frustration along the way, but it does not matter.

As long as it is the right person, however you meet, whenever you meet, it will be beautiful.

she reborn and his ex husband is also reborn! ofc the author want to gv him a 2nd chance but he is not the ML😁🙄, in their previous life he is not GOOD husband! he only care abt his work! I don't knew why he marry the girl! in the frst he don't love her! then the sl*t girl! she set up him😠 when he drunk then the sl*t girl! got a chance (she f**k him what a sl*t!) she already knew that he already married man but ofc sl*t is sl*t!😠 bcs of her ! his 2 children was died bc of that bit*h and sl*t woman!😠 and the sl*t woman she always went to MC house and told her that she and her husband are lover! thats why the MC misunderstood her husband, but she's martyrs! until she already fed and divorced her husband, while her husband, realised that he loved his wife, he want to fix their relationship as husband and wife but it's already to late!... then fvkn sh*t he also reborn then he want to chasing the MC he want to marry her again! but the MC also reborn so she chase her 2nd husband in her previous life, her beloved old man (ML) 😁 but again when the ex- husband found out! he blackmail the MC! then for the sake of the ML she chose to leave the mL!😑 she just want to protect the ML from her ex husband! the hell!😠 then they got separate in 3 or 4yrs! when the ML got money and became rich! and graduated from college! he went to his GF home!, and he also realized something!. that's why when he found her again! they makes baby!😁😁 then ask the MC's parents to marry thier daughter!..💜💓

actually I feel little pity to the ex husband hay!!

the twist! in ML previous life, they're husband and wife with the MC, they both pass away in age 85age then his 2ndlife he already late he meets his wife when he already in 40age , and the MC are married woman but when she divorced her husband. then the ML, chasing her for 3yrs then proposed to her! again...

then in MC 2ndlife she chasing her old man😁 she went to his countryside, they meets when they're young!💓💜