To Be A Virtuous Wife

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As a virtuous wife, does it include tolerating his cousin, enduring his concubines, bearing his mother?

If you will not let me live freely, why would I let you live in satisfaction?

Did fate let women time-travel so they could learn the three morals and four virtues?

Rather than act like a coward and live, it would be better to live in satisfaction and die.

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He Wei Xian Qi
Thế nào là hiền thê
ชายาผู้มีคุณธรรม
何为贤妻
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eremedy
eremedy rated it
March 29, 2018
Status: c123
So good! There's a great romance, but I'm almost more interested in how the main character beats all the odds with confidence. One of the more realistic transmigration stories. Really good translation and details around terms. A story I've already had to re-read.
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sayalr
sayalr rated it
January 1, 2018
Status: Completed
This is honestly one of the best chinese novels i've read. Truly a masterpiece that it made me want to read more. A very satisfying read and a very satisfying ending whether in regards to the protagonists or the antagonist. It even made me shed a tear or perhaps a bucket of them. Hehe

the story is realistic and somehow poetic that it made me blurt out various poems of my own while reading.

i'll never look at the world the same again.

it's that good. Totally worth reading.
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BillionJellyfish
BillionJellyfish rated it
November 5, 2017
Status: Completed
Satisfying, so satisfied! From beginning to end, the story flowed like water and the MC stuck to her gun throughout the plot. The relationship developed very well with the MC and ML, especially since it incorporates real life elements of starting a trusting relationship with humans, it was relatable in every way. Never really read anything like this, so I am very glad that this novel was translated. Kudos to the translators and the author for creating this masterpiece!
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panisa365
panisa365 rated it
October 9, 2017
Status: Completed
The synopsis doesn't do justice to the story itself. One can even say it's a bit misleading.

I also hesitated to read this even though I love other works from this translator since there was a mention of a harem. But there is actually very little component of that. The male and female leads are pretty monogamous for that era. This is also not a revenge story. It's more of a slice-of-life drama.

Best thing about this novel: The Main Character - a girl who time-traveled and ended up in the body... more>> of this wangfei. Her character is really unique. A modern woman who understands how things work in the world. Her character is what makes this novel really stands out among its kind.

Worst thing about this novel: The Male Lead - He's not bad. He's smart, good-looking, sensible, and loves the MC a lot. But his character is quite under-developed. I was waiting for him to break or react or just do something that shows his color, at least to the MC, but he never did. He gets boring after a while. I personally enjoy reading about the other prince whose life was turned upside down. His life was a lot more interesting than the male lead lol.

This is a slice-of-life story about life of a woman in an imperial family. Yeah, she has to deal with her mother-in-law and her husband's concubines and her own horrible family. But there's really no angst in it, no jealousy, no heartbreak. She dealt with everything like how she manages a company (she used to be a successful manager in previous life) which is quite funny but amazingly effective.

This novel is not a roller-coaster, it's more like floating in a calm river. Captivating but not exciting.

Because of its unique taste, I would have given it 5 stars, but then I cam across Eight Treasure Trousseau by the same author (I believe) which is essentially TBVW 2.0 but a whole lot better, I couldn't help feeling this one is lacking, especially for the male lead. <<less
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Aurora Skye
Aurora Skye rated it
September 28, 2017
Status: Completed
I really like this story. There is only one thing that bothered me..

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While I know that He Heng (ML) really loves Qing Ju (FL). There are a few occasions where he was implicated to be interested or fascinated about someone..

For example, Han Liangdi (One of He Heng's concubine), during the time where Qing Ju is pregnant, He Heng actually allowed Han to be with him and even allowed her to accompany him and even serenaded him [One of He Hengs's people even thought that the concubine was asking for favor {due to the choice of song}] He didnt show any objection to it and only panicked when he saw that Qing Ju (while pregnant) is actually looking at them at a distance... I must admit, I am very disappointed with him

Another was the Huakui (?) (Not sure if the spelling is correct) Yun Qing was her name? (I dont remember her anymore) When she was doing her scheme to gain a position in the fu (when she saw that being/acting virtuous wont make her advance in He Heng's heart) she actually recited about a poem during the time when He Heng was about to go to Qing Ju's place! At that time, the huakui was actually acting pitiful and knelt down (? Not sure if I remember correctly) He Heng was actually staring at her chest...

Last example was the Qin girl, I think it was Qin Bai Lu's (Wife of He Yuan, brother of He Heng, favored prince of the Emperor) relative. It happened during a banquet hosted by Qing Ju herself, at that time, if I remember correctly. He Heng actually took a second glance at her and was implied to be interested because the girl was dressed in a simple and elegant way, also the way of her speaking made him look at her.. but that interest waned when he saw the pearl-something-shoes that she wore and greatly reprimanded her..

Aish.. I cant help but feel saddened in Qing Ju's behalf.. she has many love rivals.. (The concubines, Wei Ran Shung {I dont know if her name is correct but this girl is also He Heng's cousin], the princess that visited the palace when He Heng ascended the throne.. even her sister admired her husband..)

While Qing Ju on the other hand.. He Heng didnt even need to shoo off some admirers even though He Yuan showed some signs that he likes her..

For example.. whenever he sees Qing Ju, he always thinks that he is pretty, when he complained to his mother about his wife, he said that he implied that he would be better off with someone like Qing Ju, when Qing Ju was pregnant, even without the approval of his very own Wang Fei, he sent her very abundant and good gifts.. And.. finally, during the epilogue made for He Yuan.. it was finally officially said that he indeed harbored feeling for her.. We found out during that chapter that he sent her paintings, got a wife and concubines that has some similar traits with the empress and even told his son during his death bed that he wanted (not really said, just told the son to get a box from the closet (?) and when he perishes, he wants it with him, when he finally passes away, his second wife opened the box and was shocked to see a painting of a woman standing (?) during the Plum Blossoms gathering.

I wish we have some sequel.. what is it was He Yuan instead? I am very interested to see what would've happened to the two of them..

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Dutchess411
Dutchess411 rated it
September 15, 2017
Status: Completed
Totally fell in love with this one though I hated the start of the story... I just loved the way the Female Lead Character handled He Heng. Just felt sad for the 3rd Prince, He Yuan. For him, if only he matured in his thinking and behavior earlier, his fate might not be what he obtained.

The characterization and the plot is well developed. The theme of the story totally resonates with the reader.

A story one would read repeatedly and not get tired. Just like I finished this novel twice in... more>> a row... just like that....

Totally 5 ⭐️... (somehow my rating didn't go thru) <<less
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Eristol
Eristol rated it
September 4, 2017
Status: Completed
At first I had a few dissatisfactions with those generic shameless villains, but in favor of those epic, tear inducing epilogue, I'm more than willing to count this point out of my rating. Was an amazing and unusual novel with an unique style. Though I tend to dislike the notion of a modern person taking over a weak unremarkable body of someone in the past, the MC is too unique and I chose to overlook that fact as well. The MC is cautious and has a rather interesting bend of... more>> mind. The ML although not the best one I've seen (I like rebirth of the malicious empress' male lead best) but still really likeable.

And personally speaking I probably like the character development of He Yuan the best. Unruly and overbearing at first but the way he later learns from his mistake and matures and also his final ending which was peaceful yet somewhat tragic was enough to make me cry. Overall I find the ending of this novel the most impactful one among the ones I've read so far. A lovely work. <<less
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Yukari_me
Yukari_me rated it
August 23, 2017
Status: --
This is my first time reading a slife of life novel and was really reluctant to try it out. But to my surprise although the summary was a bit misleading that made one lose interest such as myself, fast; I was satisfied with it. It didn't occur to me that I can be so eager to stay up and read late at night. At the beginning I was really irritated by so many pinyin words and such by the translator but as they say, you have to learn. There's also... more>> a glossary that they made which helped a lot.

Now lets talk about the novel. Here we have the usual transmigration story of a young girl who is as gentle and timid girl who tolerated bullying for so long. Living a life full of hardships and later died in a fu as an unfavored wang fei due to being poisoned to death by a girl who had the favor of the wangye who still has not fallen for QQJ. Later when the poor MC died and was taken over by the QQJ of another era she didn't directly went and go f*ck you, go to hell, revenge, kills everyone, goes on a journey while punishing everyone.

But instead started slow and changed her clothing to a more extravagant and eye catching with the aura of a dignified wang fei that caught the eye of the man she was married. Since both of them has never known love they started the act of a loving couple which turns to a legendary once in a thousand years love in their era. Which cause many jealousy and transpiracies of the people around them.

QQJ, takes advantage of the situations all the time and returns eye for an eye and never forgets to return kindness with kindeness. She is a woman who is seductive, lazy, unpredictable, smart, and loyal. She harbors grudge well and has a sharp tongue that kills people without blood. Due to the inexperience of being in love the characters are smooth sailing and is very supportive of each other but the main thing was that the trust they have to each other and the feelings they felt are things they cannot understand. It later led them to unconsciously seek the other person and get to know them more as the feelings deepen overtime with some spice and fluffy moments.

One thing I find really satisfying and really something that is rare and one of a kind is that QQJ, as a woman knows her boundaries and never overstep it. The enemies that tries to covet the main lead she teaches them a lesson. Not the lesson where it gets all unsightly and nasty but a life lesson they ought to carry on for their entire life. She is fair to those who never hinders her path and lives a fulfilling life through the end.

One of the funny thing is that all those servants. Yes the servants. Those loyal and hilarious servants that are so loyal till death they part. Would always be so protective when it gets to their masters. They control they emotions well and become a statue whenever the two couples flirt and pretend to be blind and have a the wood log face saying I-dont- know-anything-never-heard-anything which cracks me up all the time.

Theres also the side characters who played their duties well and got a satisying ending as well which made me happy. Although they didn't get the love of the wang ye or emperor they were married to, they know to not cross the mc's bottom line and was content to live in harmony and peace. I really recommend this novel to those who are hesitating to read it. ^^ <<less
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JoAnna
JoAnna rated it
January 28, 2017
Status: Completed
There is only one word that can describe this story perfectly - SUGAR.

And, like the sugar that it was, it was addictive. This whole novel was too sweet that I thought I was getting diabetes!
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svyatoslav
svyatoslav rated it
January 21, 2017
Status: Completed
From start to finish, one of the most enjoyable novels I've read that you'd find on this site. If I were to describe it in one sentence it'd be: a realistic take on the unrealistic concept of true love. The premise is ironic and self-contradictory but the execution is near flawless so it works. Actually, not just the main premise but the whole nature of the novel is very self-contradictory yet somehow seemingly realistic. For example, there is an easy-going feeling to the novel where the female lead mainly wants... more>> a comfortable life and thus never really actively seeks revenge, yet all the characters who have acted against her and didn't repent end up more miserable than the villains of most revenge novels. It is not like the MC is cruel and lacks compassion, quite the opposite, however, she knows that sometimes you have to be firm. It is very refreshing as usually you get either one extreme or the other in these types of novels. Another strength of the novel is that both main leads are not perfect and each have their flaws. In fact they are aware of their limitations and stick to their strengths. In general you have a good range of characters whose actions stay true to themselves throughout the novel (another refreshing quality). The level of the work is at a steadily high level throughout. Political intrigue is not overly complex (since it is not the main idea of the novel) and yet doesn't insult your intelligence, a very good balance.

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If I had to find one flaw of the work, it is that the relationship of the 2 main leads never really encounters any truly difficult challenges which would require some sort of sacrifice on the part of either one. It gives it a bit of a fairy tale feel though I understand that the author never meant for this novel to be anything overly serious.

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For example, she gives birth to a healthy male heir right off the bat. Imagine the pressure He Heng would have to face to have children with other wives if she is not able to produce an heir for even a few years! I doubt he would be able to stay completely faithful to her in such a case.

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Anyway, I think of myself as one who is highly critical so to get 5 stars for an entire completed work is quite the feat. <<less
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08phamann
08phamann rated it
December 1, 2016
Status: c123
I liked the heroine very much in that she was realistic in her feelings towards the prince. It's rare that you see someone who doesn't get infatuated so easily and even rarer that you see the male lead more in love than the female MC. I thought this change was refreshing although I still would have liked them to say "I love you" at least once, even though they did say that actions speak louder than words. Some things that just didn't really make sense was how she never questioned... more>> why she was reincarnated or her circumstances before she woke up in her new body. Like, did she die and this is a second chance? Or did she just go to sleep one day and woke up in this new body? Also, she seems lo literally know everything, from how to deal with unruly servants to scheming concubines and annoying mother in laws. Everything just seems to go fine for her because she somehow knows the way to deal with everything. I personally would have liked to see her struggle to fit in and deal with people more, only because I felt that she was too much of a mary sue which made it harder to sympathies with her. But overall I really enjoyed this novel I would definitely recommend. <<less
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chibiheaven
chibiheaven rated it
November 3, 2016
Status: Completed
This was a beautiful story.

I can't quite describe how I felt.

This story was an attempt to realistically depict the life of a reincarnated modern women in a historical setting. There is no nonsense wugong and overpowered female main characters in this novel.

You'll fall in love with the female protagonist in this sweet slice of life historical romance. She is realistic, witty, and charming. Please don't be turned off by the summary and give it a chance.
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Ars
Ars rated it
July 9, 2016
Status: --
To Be a Virtuous Wife is one of the top stories of the "I woke up in ancient China as a disadvantaged noblewoman" type, alongside the Mistaken Marriage Match series. The story has a sense of ease and flow made from a well-thought out progression and keen editing. The MC's maturity and self-confidence make her truly virtuous; unlike most MCs in this genre, she isn't embroiled in some terrible life-or-death intrigue, and thus lives a normal life. She makes everything seem effortless, though the reader can obviously tell that a... more>> lesser woman would crumble in her position (as had the original owner of her body). The MC's careful handling of every situation defuses most potential drama sites before they can start, making for a beautiful slice of life void of the hair-tearing and contrived events that you come to expect in these kinds of stories.

When I first started reading, I dropped the story after spending a chapter with the male lead because he felt absolutely, dreadfully boring. I'm extremely glad that I picked this back up, though - the male lead's personality only shows later, when the MC actually spends time with him. What I like most about the male lead is his subtle intelligence and unstated court manipulations, as well as how his love for the MC develops as he learns her personality. I think this kind of romance is much more touching than the typical 'fell in love because she's pretty and maybe did some weird things' which I had come to expect. All in all, this story is a must if you enjoy romance, Ancient China, and/or transmigration. It's also an excellent pick if you're looking for an intelligent and capable female lead. <<less
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Nana (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧
Nana (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧ rated it
February 29, 2016
Status: --
The female lead is the most outstanding robot female lead ever (or can I say plot armor usually used on xianxia novel?). She's perfect in every direction, she's pretty and her husband is very much infatuated with her, she can manage her household well, her interpersonal relationship is always correct. She befriend will correct people, and demean the useless one. Her life is smooth sailing and she do anything that make her happy.

Even I quite enjoy it, I can't help thinking about how the apricot can she know about formality... more>> and protocol used in the ancient time when her family neglect her that badly and she, herself come from modern world?

So I can say that this series is a slice of life novel using Chinese custom. <<less
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AhnNa
AhnNa rated it
April 16, 2025
Status: Completed
Very much slice of life with minimal political intrigue. Many might find this bland, but I enjoyed it as this was one of my introduction to ancient cnovels. The translator deserves much credit for the vivid explanations and information she shares. Which made this novel very informative. Now I sometimes read direct google translations and am able to understand the customs and rankings without difficulties.

Also, I do like there relationship it eases overtime. They both fall in love with each other overtime.
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Snuffles_o9
Snuffles_o9
February 5, 2025
Status: c60
Dropped. Bland. Boring. No chemistry between the leads and I don't know what's interesting about the FL that changes the perception of the ML and makes him like the new person his wife has become. If anything, I just feel bad for the original wife who had to live such a miserable life and be mistreated not only by her natal family but also by the ML. So, I could never like the ML. The FL is also just as pretentious and boring and does nothing but play dress up... more>> and eat Hotpot every other day which is shown as something extraordinary. Anyway, not something I could read any longer. <<less
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Jmtrn96
Jmtrn96 rated it
November 11, 2024
Status: Completed
This is a great read if you are just jumping into the historical fiction genre.

The MC is a fun character, she knows what she wants and how to get it. ML is fun to read. Both are in it for their own interests, but slowly start to trust and love each other as the story goes on. Although this isn't a story where I loved the MC and ML right from the start, it was a refreshing take on a historical transmigrated romance.
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noturaunt
noturaunt rated it
April 21, 2024
Status: Completed
This is a very lighthearted read. There are some themes of ab*se, mu*der and revenge, but they're mild and don't really leave much of an impact.

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The FL enjoys a leisure life and everything goes her way. If I had any complaints, it would be that there's never really a basis for the depth of the emperor's love for her. Like no big moment that makes him realize she's the one for him. All she did was look good, eat well and be kind, but now that I'm writing this I realize that realistically there's not much more than that needed to fall in love with someone. They were also really good friends. Their interactions were nice to read.

The "villains" in the story are mostly s*upid/jealous/ambitious women and after the ML became the emperor, the story became a little repetitive and just kept throwing these women at the emperor so he could reject them and make the empress assured of his love for her

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It's a good read overall, but I'll leave a little disclaimer that the first few chapters are difficult to get through because of the translation. It's worth it if you push through <<less
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merylstreepily
merylstreepily rated it
November 20, 2023
Status: Completed
Personally I was looking for a hot steamy romance and this wasn't giving that. This is more like a slice of life of an transmigrated FL who was trying to find her own comfortable place. But I gotta give credits to the author.

What kept me reading was the way MC handle things without being assertive and how ML comes to only see her in his eyes to the end. Every move they made had a reason, both of them really couldn't trust anyone in the beginning, especially MCl; coming from... more>> the modern world. This novel really reminds of of Dreamer in Spring Boudoir. Both realistic. The difference is this MC is lucky that she got this ML. <<less
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Illin_v
Illin_v
August 21, 2023
Status: Completed
I have reread this story a few times already. When I want a feel good palace story, I will read this one😊
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